My Wife is Frigid: March 2012

So, You Wanna Know about Frigidity?

The purpose of this blog is, as the title suggests, to discuss my personal pain and frustration with being married to a frigid woman. For those of you who are unfamiliar with the term, a “frigid” woman is one who is emotionally and physically cold. She simply does not want physical contact with her husband, especially having sex. I am sure there are frigid men out there, but I am pretty sure the overwhelming number of people that fit this description are women. I would like to differentiate between women who just have sex less as the years go by, and those that simply do not ever want to do it at all. I have read that psychologists define a “sexless” marriage as one in which the couple has sex ten times or less a year; there have been several years like that for me. Most married adults have sex, on average, between two or three times a week. I am lucky if it happens more than once a month and isn’t gawdawful. You are welcome to read, but please try to avoid slapping stereotypes and quick judgments on me or her. For those of you that are looking for something to “get your jollies,” well, I hate to disappoint you, but this blog is not it. If anything, you will read scintillating tales of people not having sex.

Friday, March 9, 2012

A hugging machine...that's what I need

I had the day off. I was watching a rerun of one of my favorite shows, and a character said he had built a "hugging machine" because his mother was so desparate for affection from his mother. It had an electric blanket to stay warm, and robotic arms to hug. His father used to borrow it. Watching this after our argument in the morning, the whole thing left me raw.
That's me, right there; maybe I will build myself a hugging machine.