The wife has done a couple of things that are driving me mad. The first is that she has spent considerable time scheduling some great vacation to a wonderful location with her friends. You can be sure they will be staying in an expensive, top-of-the-line house in some wonderful location. Meanwhile, I cannot get her to schedule a small one with me and/or the kids.
The bigger issus is that, once again, she has invited someone else to stay at our house or be with us on what is supposed to be a romantic day. She has done it on Valentine's Day a few times, once or twice on my birthday, and this time is is, again, our anniversary. (See this post for an example of what happened previously on my birthday and our anniversary). She has invited her sister to come down, with her (I hate to say this) very poorly behaved children to our house during our anniversary. She has said the sister is coming to town for some other activity a couple of days earlier, but it does not matter. She has, again, scheduled something with someone else on our anniversary that will make it impossible for us to go out to dinner or have sex on our anniversary. I like her sister a lot, and, despite their generally bratty behavior, I don't dislike her kids. (The kids do not get enough attention, so they misbehave to get someone to pay attention to them).
When I brought this up to her, she acted as if she did not understand what the fuss was all about. I told her they needed to be gone by our anniversary, but she just shrugged.
I am so mad I cannot see straight. What is wrong with her? If we can't have a real anniversary celebration, I am going to leave her.
Her issues go way beyond being frigid.
ReplyDeleteI would tell her that the home you have made for her and your children has no place for her as she obviously doesnt see her self as part of your family.
ReplyDeleteIts as though, from what ive read , that you and your children are a hinderance to her.
I do believe that you and your children would be better with out this person in there lives.