So, You Wanna Know about Frigidity?

The purpose of this blog is, as the title suggests, to discuss my personal pain and frustration with being married to a frigid woman. For those of you who are unfamiliar with the term, a “frigid” woman is one who is emotionally and physically cold. She simply does not want physical contact with her husband, especially having sex. I am sure there are frigid men out there, but I am pretty sure the overwhelming number of people that fit this description are women. I would like to differentiate between women who just have sex less as the years go by, and those that simply do not ever want to do it at all. I have read that psychologists define a “sexless” marriage as one in which the couple has sex ten times or less a year; there have been several years like that for me. Most married adults have sex, on average, between two or three times a week. I am lucky if it happens more than once a month and isn’t gawdawful. You are welcome to read, but please try to avoid slapping stereotypes and quick judgments on me or her. For those of you that are looking for something to “get your jollies,” well, I hate to disappoint you, but this blog is not it. If anything, you will read scintillating tales of people not having sex.

Tuesday, January 1, 2013

Vacation Blues

I mentioned to my wife her promise that we spend a weekend together in the country.  Yes, I do want to make love, but I also just want to get her off the @#$% TV and Facebook.  She put me off.  So, I got out the calendar to schedule something in the spring.  Well, she said, we can't do that because we have some other trip scheduled.  What trip?  Oh, I am taking another trip with my friends to the beach.
A few weeks ago, I tried to plan a family trip after Christmas.  For reasons I will not go into, that was the only time work would allow it.  She tried really hard to get me not to do it (I don't know why), but relented when I told her I would just take the kids myself.
Now, I find out that she is staying some place really swanky with her friends, after doing her best to get out of a trip with her family.  She tried to tell me she couldn't get the time off from work, but strangely she had no trouble getting time off for another trip with her friends.  Wonderful.
To boot, she invited her sister to go on another family trip with us without asking.  I like her sister, but she should have asked me first.  Further, we were originally planning to go someplace different than what she told her sis.  Grrrr.

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